BDSM

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BDSM

There are many forms of bondage; metaphorically and physically. Were going to talk about the physical.
Bondage is in a fetish known as BDSM. Bondage Dominance Sadomasochism. There are clubs dedicated to such a fetish as well as items available for purchase in sex shops so couples could practice at home. Some people like being tied up and dominated and others enjoy being dominated and punished.
Yes I'm saying that people get off on pain.
I am also saying that they also get off on being dominated or submitting to their partner.
And some people get off on dominating their partner.
Why?
There is such a rush that comes from being dominated. A rush and a helplessness. The sensation that you have no idea what is going to happen next or what will happen if you disobey is both very frightening and exciting at the same time. The fear of the unknown is highly apparent but its more exciting than anything especially if you trust your partner. If there is full trust between the both of you sessions can go easily and be highly pleasurable for both Master and Slave. The master trusts the slave enough to be obedient and submit to them. They don't just trust them to do so. They expect it. If the slave does not meet expectations punishment is administered. Now either the slave is defiant and disobeys because they enjoy punishment and become aroused by pain or they decide to be a good little slave and get a lighter less painful and more pleasurable reward. Or the Master decides to inflict pain upon them anyway for either sick pleasure. And sometimes the slave enjoys it.
But punishment doesn't necessarily have to involve master and slave roles. Just the dominant and submissive roles. Which I guess could be categorized as such save for the submissive partner is not saying yes master or no master or please master give me more. Nor is the dominant partner calling their submissive partner a slave.
People cane get off on pain. Being whipped, being cut, burned, or slapped. Personally I enjoy the sting of a whip on my flesh. I'm not sure how many other people do but I do. I also enjoy having candle wax poured upon my flesh as well. Then there is also being slapped on various parts other than the face. There is something about the sting of pain that can feel fantastic and vulnerable. It's okay to feel vulnerable around your partner. There shouldn't be any walls around when it comes to sex or pleasure or BDSM. Not physical walls at least.
My friend has practiced a rather intriguing trick on me. He does it every time I see him. He uses his nails or the sharp blade of a knife and gently scrapes it along my skin. Sometimes he digs his nails into my flesh leaving red marks and other times he just sits and traces the knife along my skin. Its a frightening thing having a blade at your flesh because you don't know at what moment it might stab or slash you, unless you or your partner know how to handle it and know how to pleasure with it. The trick to the knife technique is to know how gentle you need to be with the blade or how hard you can scrape against the skin without cutting your partner.  It also helps if trust is involved. It will not work if there is no trust involved.
Personally I want to explore a little more in this area. I feel that it will help me bring down some walls and build confidence in myself. If not explore practice a bit more. There are kinks I enjoy within it and kinks that I don't wish to venture into.
The point is I do enjoy a little bit of pain. I feel in control and yet not in control. Its empowering and relieving to have someone take control and manhandle you. In the end sometimes the results are amazing.
I just had this on my mind today (mostly because I am writing a piece with bondage involved between the characters) and I felt like I needed to share it. Yes I dabble in it. It's not a scary or freaky thing. I know I've dabbled in it.
I just wanted to share a more private part of my life. Yeah this isn't something I wouldn't normally post about but it was on my heart and I wanted to share it.
To some it may seem perverted and disgusting. To others it is a seems of freedom and empowerment. I find it fascinating. Like many things I find this fascinating.